Signs Your Ex Girlfriend Will Eventually Come Back
It’s difficult after a breakup to determine exactly where you stand when it comes to your ex. It is almost impossible to get a clear understanding of the fracture because the emotions are at their greatest and the emotions are probably not as good as they used to be. Then you think: does my ex still have feelings for me? It can even be so confusing that you ‘unfortunately’ get a wrong impression of your ex.
In this article, I will explain how to interpret your ex’s signals.
A frequently asked question: does my ex still have feelings for me?
I often get the question: how do I know if my ex still has feelings for me
In this article, I give you 7 clues, 7 signals that are very easy to analyze. There is only one point that you should pay attention to if you recognize only 1 of these signals, do not immediately think ‘yes! my ex still has feelings for me ‘, it is important that you recognize at least 3 of these signals.
Actually, like investigating an offense, the more evidence, the more reason to believe the person is guilty. So you cannot rely on just 1 signal.
Signal No. 1: You meet your ex in illogical places
If you come across your ex in a place that makes no sense, eg you are at a party of friends you haven’t seen for a long time or you are walking on the street. Suddenly you see your ex there. Strange right?
Signal No. 2: Your ex touches you unusually long
Imagine you are walking on the street and you don’t know that he or she is walking behind you. Suddenly your ex taps you on the back or your ex scares you. You turn around and your ex sees your horrified face> He or she immediately jokes. Your ex responds with his / her prettiest smile ‘You don’t have to startle me, do you?’ Of course, your ex wouldn’t have caught your attention this way if he or she no longer had feelings for you.
And imagine if your ex touches you just a little longer than usual. It may also be that your ex looks at you longer than you normally are used to. That is also a positive signal. After all, you know that non-verbal communication is more important than verbal communication.
Just think of this example: I tell you with a smiling face “you know, I am not happy”. You clearly know that that’s not right. The opposite is also true. You can say that you are happy with a sad face. If non-verbal behavior is not consistent with verbal behavior, your alarm bells should ring.
Signal No. 3 that your ex still has feelings for you
Here’s yet another phenomenon that points to the fact that your ex still has feelings for you and you will see the signs your ex girlfriend will eventually come back.
E.g. you meet your ex and you notice that his or her behavior is completely different from what you are used to. This can also happen if you meet your ex in a group, eg at a party with friends. If your ex is a rather shy type and doesn’t chat with others that quickly, then something might not be quite right if it suddenly does. If, however, he or she was usually a very social kind, and you all of a sudden see her or him staring sadly, there exists a possibility that your ex still has feelings for you.
Signal no. 4: you initiate appointments or seek contact
Especially if you have agreed with your ex not to have contact during a certain time, it makes no sense if your ex still keeps in touch with you.
However, it is clearly a bad sign if your ex still doesn’t reply after you have already sent him or her 80 emails. You should therefore immediately stop and insert radio silence. Depending on the number of emails you have sent, that period of radio silence can take a long time.
Signal No. 5: Your ex is vague and indecisive
Your ex can’t make a decision or say things that aren’t clear. For example, if you say to your ex ‘we will try again together’ and your ex responds with ‘I don’t know yet, I need time, I have to think’ it indicates that your ex is not yet fully behind / her decision is made.
Do a comparison of an ex who states very firmly that he/she will not change the decision, it is certain that it’ll be hard to get back your ex.
Signal No. 6: Your ex is abnormally annoyed or angry with you
It is often said that the pendant of love is not hated. That’s right. You can say that hate is actually more ‘derailed love’. As soon as your ex shows some form of emotion, whether positive or negative, it indicates that your ex is still thinking about you. At least he or she is still working on you in his head.
There is really only one thing that you can say that your ex has no feelings for you anymore. And that is indifference! If you’re ignored by your ex, that’s a really bad sign.
Signal No. 7: Your ex says “I’m no longer in love. The butterflies are gone ”
I can imagine that you are shocked by such statements. But remember that if you’ve been in a 10-year relationship, feelings can’t just be gone. If your ex suddenly meets you on the street after 3 years, what do you think what’s going through your ex’s head (and heart) at the time?
Very often an ex says “I’m no longer in love” when the relationship has become too complicated and people don’t know what to say. It is up to you to find out ‘how deep my ex’s feelings are still before me; what can I do to control and change that?’
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